Shout out to those who have been cuffed and already have plans for this year’s Valentine's Day - although shame on you if you think this is the only day to spoil your significant other. But for those who are single and are looking for things to do, now is the time to get comfortable and pay close attention as you’re reading this.
(Yup this post is dedicated for the singles) lol
Pleasure yourself:
Since Valentine's Day is all about love, spend the day loving yourself. Whatever that may be. Ain’t nobody judging. Do whatever you want, be it pampering yourself or staying home, ordering take out and binge-watch a full season of your favorite TV show. For the fellas out there, let the other guys, smitten by their girlfriends, spend a fortune in their attempt to woo their ladies. You can spend that money on something you had been eyeing for a long time. An iPhone, the latest gaming console or anything else that is appealing to you. After all, you have no one to please but yourself.
Go out:
Yes, most parties you will be invited to might include couple-y things but what is so bad about turning up on somebody else’s dime. My preference is don’t go sober but don’t be too turnt either. It may come off like you are depressed or are just too insecure and you don’t want to ruin it for everybody else incase you act reckless or just a hot mess. Instead get tipsy and just have a good time. You never know, you might meet other singles and before you know it you might actually end up not being “lonely” on valentines.
You can also hang out with your other single friends too. Invite them over for a get together or hit up the bars.
Just remember to be respectful and responsible!
Figure out what you want out of love:
Even if you don't want to right now or don't believe it will ever happen, everyone, including you, can fall in love. And it usually happens when you least expect it. So take some time to write down a few love goals. Whether you want to remain single for 10 more years or want to start dating this month, that clarity makes it that much easier to get there
Ps: No matter what you decide to do Please don’t sit around and mope around about your ex. or the fact you are single. There are ton of things to do on Valentine's Day that you can enjoy.
By Victor Mwangi
(Yup this post is dedicated for the singles) lol
Pleasure yourself:
Since Valentine's Day is all about love, spend the day loving yourself. Whatever that may be. Ain’t nobody judging. Do whatever you want, be it pampering yourself or staying home, ordering take out and binge-watch a full season of your favorite TV show. For the fellas out there, let the other guys, smitten by their girlfriends, spend a fortune in their attempt to woo their ladies. You can spend that money on something you had been eyeing for a long time. An iPhone, the latest gaming console or anything else that is appealing to you. After all, you have no one to please but yourself.
Go out:
Yes, most parties you will be invited to might include couple-y things but what is so bad about turning up on somebody else’s dime. My preference is don’t go sober but don’t be too turnt either. It may come off like you are depressed or are just too insecure and you don’t want to ruin it for everybody else incase you act reckless or just a hot mess. Instead get tipsy and just have a good time. You never know, you might meet other singles and before you know it you might actually end up not being “lonely” on valentines.
You can also hang out with your other single friends too. Invite them over for a get together or hit up the bars.
Just remember to be respectful and responsible!
Figure out what you want out of love:
Even if you don't want to right now or don't believe it will ever happen, everyone, including you, can fall in love. And it usually happens when you least expect it. So take some time to write down a few love goals. Whether you want to remain single for 10 more years or want to start dating this month, that clarity makes it that much easier to get there
Ps: No matter what you decide to do Please don’t sit around and mope around about your ex. or the fact you are single. There are ton of things to do on Valentine's Day that you can enjoy.
By Victor Mwangi